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Okay, here's a classic. My best friend's husband just hit on me. I can't stand him and I'd love to tell T, but I'm afraid she won't believe me. I don't want to put our friendship in jeopardy, but I don't want her creep of a husband to get away with this. Do I tell her or keep my mouth shut? Signed, Best Pal Forget it! She won't believe you. She loves and trusts her husband and her life depends more on him than you. If you tell her you lose a friend. Just make it clear to the jerk that you are not interested. There will be someone else and the wife will finally find out and then you can be the good friend that you are and comfort her then. Signed, Been There First of all you'd have to describe how he "hit on you.” Was he just complimenting you on say a new dress, hairdo, etc., or was it more than that …like a hand somewhere it shouldn't be or an actual invitation to…?? I'd need more information on this one. In the meantime, stand still. Signed, Debbie, LI Here’s a classic answer; keep your mouth closed! Signed, Marilyn, MN Please don’t say a word to your friend. I lost my closest friend when her drunken husband showed up at my door, at two in the morning, and tried to force his way in. I called her right then and there and she could hear him yelling from outside and she blamed me! Some woman will just throw their old friends over rather than admit their husband’s a dog! Signed, Sherry, NY I would want to know if my husband hit on my girlfriend, so I would tell her. If she kills the messenger, then you didn’t lose a friend, did you? Signed, K.G., WA Your girlfriend’s husband hit on you because he knew you wouldn’t tell. Guys count on the friendship thing you women have to keep them safe. We know we win if you do tell, too. My wife would take my word before her girlfriend’s believe me. I’ve never done it. I’m just telling you the way it is. Signed, Carl, TX If you want to keep the friendship be quiet. You’ll only be accused of coming on to him. I know because that’s what happened to me. My friend was quick to cut me off and her low life husband had the nerve to call me afterwards! Signed, Marcia I met a man on Match.Com. We’ve really hit it off and have been dating for six months. The problem is that he hasn’t taken his profile off of the service. He promised he would do it, but it has been two weeks and he’s still listed. Do you think I’m making a big deal over nothing? Signed, Met My Match |
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